6 Mindset Shifts to Take Your Twin Flame Reunion To the next Level

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In this teaching on Twin Flame Relationships, you will learn: 
✨How to become a powerful catalyst for reunion by taking full ownership of your damn journey
✨How to end separation, ghosting, withdrawl + bring your twin closer
✨How to shift from manipulation to unleashing your raw authentic self and become fucking irresistible
✨How to manifest a healthy, loyal, commitment and a twin flame reunion faster
✨How to ditch 3D scarcity and ascend to 5D perspective and reach a reunion faster

Manifesting a twin flame reunion is actually really EASY.

Yep, there. I said it. 

This is supposed to be the most magical mind-blowing fucking journey of your life. You should NOT be struggling in your twin flame journey. (And if you are, let's chat). You should be THRIVING!

I'm in full permanent union with my twin because of one simple fact: I don’t put my fucking success in anyone else's hands other than my own. 

I take FULL fucking responsibility for everything that is happening in my life.

I stay in my own fucking lane because I know I can change my story at any time. Every single day, I'm taking bold messy actions as my future self, and to BE who I desire to BE. I am the architect of my fucking destiny, and the same goes for you.

Here are some fucked up myths as to why you THINK you're not manifesting a reunion:


*He is afraid of commitment*


*He doesn't see value in what your offer*


*He doesn't know what he wants*


*There is no urgency for him to commit*


*The timing isn’t right *


*Your feminine power is suppressed*


*I'm not good enough for him*


*Your love skills need an upgrade*

When you take radical responsibility for your twin flame relationship, the game changes.

This is the motherfucking big dick energy of successful women who have ascended to 5D. Emotional connection is YOUR responsibility, not your man.

It's easy to "blame" your twin and make shitty excuses like “he’s not willing to commit”, “he had a bad childhood”, or “Why is everyone getting married and having babies except me? Maybe there is something wrong with me”.

You are responsible for creating an easygoing twin flame relationship by bringing in feminine energy (more ease, joy, pleasure, and connection). Now, read that again!

To manifest a reunion, you need to...

  • show the value of being in a relationship with you (without convincing, explaining, or pushing him for a commitment)!
  • know how to express what you want/don’t want with feeling messaging.
  • have a well-proven twin flame reunion action plan and stay consistent 
  • know how to KEEP your relationship hot and healthy (to avoid future separation)
  • kill your good girl avatar and start to set boundaries
  • to do all the necessary 5D love mindset work
  • take fucking control of your triggers 

It's not your twin's job to commit to you. It's your job to learn how to raise your value and become an irresistible fucking force that no man can resist. 

You have a responsibility to become so unbelievably captivating that your twin would be fucking insane not to lock it down and commit to you right now. 

Unmasking the Truth: Authentic Attractive or Desperate Manipulator?

Answer this question:

Who are you BEING when the camera isn't rolling?

👉If your twin could SEE how you LEAD yourself behind the scenes...

👉If he could crawl inside your head and SEE how you talk to yourself...

👉If he could SEE how you show up in life and make decisions...

👉If he were a fucking fly on the wall in your DM convos with your psychic/mentor, and he watched you make every excuse as to "why you can't have what you want"...

...would he still be excited to ask you out, be with you, and propose to you? 

Would YOU commit to you right now?

Do you genuinely believe in the shit you're saying, or are you just saying them in a desperate attempt to manipulate your twin into commitment?

Men can EASILY tell the difference between women who believe + EMBODIES what they are. No wonder it is hard for you to manifest a twin flame reunion. You're LYING to him! 💀

I see this a lot, and as someone who WANTS and DESIRES for you to have it all, AND knows it's possible for you - I need to point this out.

You have to BE someone that men WANT to invest in BEFORE they invest in you. When you take action and show up in life as a woman YOU would be excited to go on dates with, commit to, and start a family with - your twin will step up.

But right now, you're doing the fucking opposite:

  • Chasing strategy after strategy in hopes to find the "next best thing"
  • Psychic/coach/twin flame mentor hopping
  • Overthinking your every move
  • Waiting for the "perfect time" to move...
  • Trying to act like somebody who is attractive.
  • Not showing your raw authentic personality
  • Not sharing what you really think or feel
  • Not expressing the fucking joy for being you
  • Not showing up daily in your feminine power
  • Not investing big cash in yourself 

I'm gonna give it to you fucking straight: You will NOT manifest a twin flame reunion by "healing" yourself in this way!

If you're dead serious about breaking free from the separation stage and getting your twin back, then it's time to unleash the full fucking force of your feminine power.

You need to be the woman your man DESIRES to be with, commit to, and marry. This transformation starts with YOU, not him! So, let's rewrite the damn script and create the twin flame reunion you fucking deserve!

6 Powerful Mindset Shifts That Will Help You Manifest a Reunion 

Step #1: Own Who the Fuck You Are

Screw your self-doubt and insecurities! It's time to radically accept every damn inch of yourself, and let your confidence radiate like a freaking wildfire. 

Seriously, how much freaking time do we waste tearing ourselves down, obsessing over others' opinions, and feeling not enough? 

Owning the fuck of who you come in two forms:

➡️Mindset: thoughts, stories, beliefs, the words we think and say to and about our bodies (step 2)

➡️Action: the things we DO to and FOR our bodies, how we eat, how we sleep, how to move, how to protect it, how we dress.

I say this all the time and I’ll never stop saying it; your body deserves to be LOVED, CHERISHED, AND APPRECIATED no matter what fucking size or shape it is.

You cannot HATE yourself enough to own and love yourself. You have to choose to force yourself to THINK you're the most beautiful woman in the room until you actually start to FEEL it.

If you want to break free from the chains of the 3D Matrix (with all its fucked up societal expectations and people-pleasing), then you must express your rawest, weirdest self with a rebellious spirit!

No more seeking validation from others. No more playing small. No more excuses. Stop giving away your power and start owning your worth.

Forget fashion rules and trends. Dress like a motherfucking canvas for self-expression. Wear clothes that make you feel like a sexy goddess version of yourself. 

I give you radical permission to “dress sexy” and wear clothes that you’ve always wanted to wear but may have NEVER thought you actually would wear. Fuck hiding because you think your style is "too sexy", "too weird", "too crazy", or "too much". OWN IT!


Step #2: Challenge Your Shitty Self-limiting Beliefs

Master your mindset. Identify the negative thoughts that undermine your unshakeable belief that a twin flame reunion is near. Replace them with powerful AF affirmations and declarations of self-worth.

Start by doing slow, deep, sensual breathing and exhaling with sound. Locate where in your body you're resisting your desired reality with your twin, and release your resistance. Release the dead weight that suggests that it is extremely difficult to impossible to have your twin show up for you in the manner you most desire (it's a fucking lie).

Next, repeat your new affirmations daily to feel more confident.

Take a moment each morning and evening to stand in front of the mirror, look yourself in the eyes, and confidently affirm your desires. Write down affirmations that resonate with you and stick them on your mirror using colorful sticky notes or dry-erase markers.

Here are some examples:

"I don't chase, I attract".

"What belongs to me will simply find me".

"No matter what he's doing or who he is with, the truth of the matter is that he is obsessed with me".

"I'm the only thing on his mind".

"It is always working out for me".

"My twin flame relationship is ridiculously easy to navigate".

"Why is it so easy? Why is this universe literally rigged in my favor?"

"Men fall in love with me easily. My twin loves me and only me".

Trust me. Only use these affirmations if you desperately want your twin to come back. Like today, this shit works.

Step #3: Celebrate Everything, No Matter How Small

It's insane how many people are skipping this manifesting technique.

Celebration is the highest form of manifestation. When you celebrate ANYTHING good in your life, it shows the world that you ACCEPT amazing things and more are coming.

Powerful manifestation thrives on vibrational alignment. When you celebrate, you raise your vibration and align yourself with the frequency of what you WANT to manifest.

Simply put; the more you'll celebrate what you already HAVE, the more you will manifest things you WANT (more calls, texts, dates, and commitment from your twin). This is how you collapse time and space and take a shortcut to reach a permanent stress-free reunion.

So, starting TOMORROW, I want you to comment below this blog post here a "celebration post" about ANYTHING that happened that day. It could be anywhere from your mother buying you coffee, to winning the lottery, to seeing an old friend, to finding a penny in the street, to celebrating the fucking sunshine.

And celebration can be anything from telling someone, to going out for dinner/drinks, to getting dressed up, eating at a fancy restaurant, to doing a weird silly Wednesday Addams dance.

So, let's crank up the celebration meter and speed up your manifestations. If you are going to commit to this challenge, comment, "I COMMIT" below!

Step #4: Luck is For Losers 

"You're so lucky to have your twin in your life."

Luck? Ha! That's not even part of the equation. A permanent anxious-free twin flame reunion has absolutely nothing to do with "luck".

I will never stop preaching about commitment, investing, and choosing to GO ALL IN. It's what got me here - and it's what will get you where you want to go too.


  • just sit back and wait
  • watch and envy other happy couples from the sidelines
  • let my fears control my actions


  • put 100% belief into me
  • continue to bet on me
  • choose to go all in
  • push my edges every FUCKING day to grow more
  • show up every day for myself and my twin flame relationship
  • choose to implement, take action, and be the 1% (5D people)

And a lot of people still ask me "How? How did you do this?". The answer is choice and action. 

Attracting (and keeping) your twin flame has everything to do with the CHOICES you make, and the ACTIONS you take.

Everything you desire, you can have - if you fucking choose it.

I'm not special. I'm not someone who "just got lucky". I put in the fucking WORK that most unhealed women are too lazy to do.

I make the necessary moves and investments to transform, grow, and get what I want - even if it scared the hell out of me sometimes.

It's time you start CHOOSING that your dreams are already coming true - and act accordingly.

Both me + you are faced with the same choices on our journeys. So don't sit here and tell me/yourself "It's not possible for me". 


Step #5: Invest In Mentorship

The amount of energy and potential earnings I WASTED watching my mentors and questioning "HOW" before hiring them to navigate my twin flame journey makes me fucking sick. 🤢

That "missing piece of the puzzle" you feel in your business is SUPPORT

Here's the kicker: Money isn't coins, papers, or numbers in your damn bank account. 

Cash is an unstoppable energy that reflects your unwavering commitment to yourself. The more you DEVOTE AND INVEST in your personal growth, the more commitment you'll magnetize from your twin flame.

If you're trapped in an endless loop of binge-watching twin flame videos on YouTube, desperately downloading freebies, or throwing money at $97 programs, it's time to wake the fuck up. You're emotionally unavailable.

You're just scratching the surface, too afraid to take the plunge and dive deep. You're a commitment-phobe in denial. You're lacking true commitment to yourself. And when your commitment to yourself is half-assed, you'll manifest a half-assed commitment from your twin. 

If you're too damn scared to commit to long-term mentorship with a badass twin flame coach, you're setting yourself up for short-term results in your relationship. That's right, the mirror aspect is coming in hot.

Stop hesitating. Stop judging. Stop trying to "talk yourself out of it". Just DO IT!

Step #6: Make the Fucking Moves

Let's be brutally honest here: do you really need a "sign" like seeing 11:11 to make that next move - or do you ALREADY KNOW what your next move is?

Trust me-you are already READY to take it. You just need to trust yourself to fucking jump.

Sure, signs are cool and all. The Universe loves throwing them at us on our twin flame journeys. But let's face it, you don't need a damn sign to know your next move. You already know it in your soul, in your body. You know who your twin flame mentor is. You know who you want to work with. 

And yeah, it might scare the shit out of you. But waiting for a sign ain't the answer. The answer is trusting YOURSELF to make that big dick energy move. It's about having the guts to go after it. To feel that fear and tell it to fuck off while you do it anyway.

I've been there too. I still fear the fear. I've invested a whopping $57,000 in just one mentor this year (yup, just one!). I didn't get here by letting fear control my every move. I didn't get here by waiting or overthinking every damn decision when deep down, I always knew my next step.

Today is the fucking day you can decide to make a move that will change your entire life. It's all up to YOU, so trust yourself, kick fear in the face, and go make that move. You've got this!

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Viona Kali Haven

Viona Haven is a NO BS psychic coach and the authority on twin flame relationships and 5D ascension. She is the CEO and founder of her company Manifestation Diva and has helped 500+ women to reach a twin flame reunion.

Viona Haven and her company are leading the charge in teaching twin flame relationships and building female boss leaders who are devoted to global healing and changing the fucking world. The return is a twin flame love, massive mega impact, and 6-figure brands that give back. 

Viona Haven has completed her twin flame journey and lives in full union with her twin flame. Her favorite drink is hot chocolate with whipped cream because "all the cool adults drink it".

When not coaching her students into goddam goddesses, Viona can be found barefoot in nature, sunbathing by the pool, eating salted caramel ice cream, or watching Netflix documentaries about serial killers. She is a digital nomad traveling the world in a 4x4 camper van with her partner and dog. She’s never been happier.


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