What the Male Twin Flame (the Runner) REALLY Think and Feel During the Separation
In this teaching on Twin Flame Relationships, you will learn: ✨What your twin flame is REALLY thinking and feeling about you during the separation
✨Eye-opening revelations about what really goes on in his mind when he's pulling away
✨The true emotions/thoughts that drive his "runner" behavior & how to turn it around
✨How to manifest a healthy, loyal, commitment and a twin flame reunion faster
✨Badass strategies to navigate the separation like a pro. No more playing the victim; it's time to grow some girl balls!
Your twin is running away from you. He has broken up with you 12389 times, which often involves ghosting or blocking you on social media. When your twin flame told you he needs space and you need to separate, it seriously felt like you were drowning.
You feel like your heart has been ripped out of your body and nothing but your twin flame can repair it. You feel depressed; desperate to return to that magnetic intense feeling of bliss when you first met. You can barely get out of bed anymore and the dominating thoughts in your head are
“What is my twin feeling and thinking right now?”
I’m here to put your mind at motherfucking ease and give you the brutal truth and not comforting illusions that most shitty unhealed psychics will deliver. My goal with this article is to equip you with the real deal, no sugar-coated lies that only provide temporary comfort but no real results.
Instead, I will empower you with no BS knowledge that will transform your journey so you can manifest a twin flame reunion as fast as possible in this lifetime.
I’m a straight shooter so you will most likely feel triggered by my truth bombs. My hope is that after reading this, you'll resist the temptation to dial up a psychic hotline and fall into the trap of comforting illusions that won't get you anywhere.
You’re on my blog for a reason. You have manifested this. I’m the last resort when everything else has failed in your twin flame relationship. I’m the most successful twin flame teacher in the world. No brag, just a goddamn fact.
During the past 5 years, I have helped over 500+ women end the separation stage and reach a twin flame reunion. I’m also in full union with my own twin so you're not just reading some random guru's blog. You’re getting advice from a woman who knows her shit.
As one of Scandinavia’s most skilled psychic mediums, I have done over 30,000 psychic readings of twin flame couples and especially male twin flames. Trust me, I know exactly what’s going on in the male twin's head, the true reason he is running (it’s not want you think), and what he is REALLY feeling during your separation.
Twin Flame Separation
To understand what your twin is thinking and feeling during the separation, you must first understand WHY he is running away in the first place.
Most twin flame teachers will falsely fool you with the comforting lie that the male twin becomes the runner because he is afraid of the intensity of the connection and can’t handle these strong feelings.
This is rubbish.
The true reason the male twin becomes a runner is that you have subconsciously taken the masculine energy in the relationship, even if you think you’re the DF aka the feminine partner.
You have leaned forward. You have slowly poisoned the relationship with mothering behaviors, over-giving, and unrealistic fucking expectations.
When your agenda and desire to have the ring, the title, the Facebook status, the commitment, the marriage, or the babies is MORE important than your LOVE for your twin flame, he will run for the fucking hills.
The male twin will FEEL that you are using him to bolster your self-esteem and good girl avatar and he will fight like hell catering to your fucked up ego!
Simply put, you have scared him away with your needy, clingy, obsessive, dominating, controlling, and desperate energy. You can read more about the true reason why your twin is withdrawing and how to bring him closer here.
Here’s why you’re in this toxic push-and-pull relationship with your twin:
➡️ You're not present (emotionally available) with yourself or your body
➡️ You refuse to take 100% responsibility for the results in your life
➡️ You refuse to take 100% accountability for your decisions and choices
➡️ You refuse to take 100% responsibility for the energy you carry around your twin
➡️ Your life is stagnant and boring, no progress is occurring
➡️ You are not living your true purpose in life aka twin flame mission
You've gotta clean this shit up if you are serious about REUNION SUCCESS, particularly in regards to relating harmoniously with your twin flame.
If something feels “off” in your twin flame relationship it’s because you have him on a fucking pedestal. The only men who desire to be idolized and placed on a pedestal are narcissists, also known as false twins.
So, let’s explore exactly what your twin flame (the runner) FEELS and THINKS when he's withdrawing from or avoiding you…
💭"I can finally breathe."
One of the emotions the male twin flame feels during a separation is PEACE. Sweet relief. Silence. Calmness. Bliss. Zero pressure. No nagging. No pushing. Just pure fucking peace… and he LOVES it!
What most spiritual women don’t get is that their obsessive energy makes it impossible for them to keep their twins in the long run. They fail to see that their toxicity is the reason their twins don’t want to be with them.
Desperation is fucking stank. Your obsessive thoughts and unrealistic expectations poison your energy and destroy your twin flame relationship.
Why? Because an anxious woman is a living nightmare. Overthinking every little thing is a pain in the ass for those around her.
What's worse is that science has confirmed the contagious nature of anxiety. When you spend time with anxious people, your body responds by activating the same stress hormones and experiencing corresponding physical symptoms like headaches, tension, and a constant sense of urgency.
If your twin has any self-respect, he will withdraw from your toxicity to protect his energy which is a healthy sign of a grounded, healthy masculine man.
However, if you are still wounded and controlled by your "good girl" persona, you may dismiss his self-respect and label him as selfish or narcissistic.
You have destroyed any hint of attraction by acting like his mother and incessantly pushing for commitment. As a result, he feels like he just dodged a fucking bullet.
He feels used and like you've been taking advantage of him, leaving him with a massive energy deficiency.
Why? Because he believes he's constantly falling short in your eye and never giving enough to you (even though he probably over-delivered, and went above and beyond in the relationship, but you couldn't appreciate it).
The male twin flame feels like you have tried to TAKE FROM him instead of co-creating with him in the relationship. He feels like he’s walking on eggshells around you, terrified that one wrong move or slightly off comment will trigger a colossal relationship talk.
❌There is nothing more mentally exhausting than worrying if you say the "right" thing or do the “right” thing.
❌There is no more effective way to make a man run away from you than to blame and judge him.
All this activates the fear that if he makes one mistake or says one "wrong* thing, you are going to be disappointed, start a fight, cry hysterically, or start a big relationship talk.
He's a human fucking being. He never wants to feel this utterly weak and exhausted again.
💭“What the fuck is wrong with her?”
You told him you loved him unconditionally no matter what, that you could conquer everything together, and that you would be there for him always.
Here’s what he really thinks about that:
“She is so obsessed with me. It's annoying. She's like a fucking stalker. She follows my every move. She's always on my fucking case about something. Hearing her voice irritates the hell out of me. I can't stand listening to any more of her complaints! Why doesn't she just get a fucking life? Then I might actually feel attracted to her again...”
Ouch, I know. The truth will set you free, but first, it will piss you off.
Here's the truthbomb; because you’re chasing him with masculine energy, you're constantly making him feel like there's an urgent fire to put out.
He senses that you're expecting some secret answer or hidden treasure from him, and when he can't provide it or isn't ready to, he knows you'll be disappointed.
You're placing unrealistic expectations on him, demanding that he be EVERYTHING in your life, and it's driving him fucking crazy.
When you put your twin on a pedestal, you're handing over way too much power over your own happiness. You're ecstatic when he sends a text, but down in the dumps when he doesn't. You're over the moon when he asks you out, but downright gloomy if he doesn't.
Your happiness is solely dependent on getting what you WANT from him, and if he falls short, you're left disappointed. Your entire mood revolves around his actions or lack thereof, and it's sending him running for dear life.
💭“Why did she make me feel so weak?”
When you take on the masculine role in your relationship, you set off a chain reaction that activates his feminine energy. That's the law of polarity for you, and it's the express ticket to Separation Town. To speed up your twin flame reunion, dig into the nitty-gritty of how this law works right here.
Now, let's talk about what chain reaction happens when you obsess, nag, complain, and push him for a commitment. These motherfucking behaviors are what I call slow poisons in twin flame love so you need to accept the harsh reality that you have poised your relationship with your toxicity.
So, the reality you will manifest is a fear factory in his mind, pumping out resistance at full blast. As a result, he throws up walls everywhere, not just in your relationship but with friends, family, and even at work.
The sad part? He doesn't even recognize himself anymore. He becomes sluggish, losing all motivation, foggy brain, and all he wants to do is crash out on the sofa. That's what happens when you trigger his FEMININE energy, but his true energy and dominant archetype are MASCULINE. He feels completely out of whack.
So, thanks to this out-of-balance polarity that you've introduced, he starts feeling like you're slowly but surely taking over every aspect of his life. Your toxicity starts poisoning it all.
In the end, he just wants to slam on the brakes, run away from you, and break free to protect himself and his precious energy.
💭“I want to end this.”
If he is withdrawing and you don’t lean back and instead push him for a relationship talk, he will feel the need to break free.
"Doesn't matter what the hell I do, she's never freakin' happy. I'm always the villain, so why bother trying to please her? If she wants a bad guy, well, guess what? I'll play the part."
And if he's pulled away or ghosted you, get ready for a display of downright shitty behavior. He'll turn ice-cold, become more selfish, or unleash a storm of hurtful words you never thought would come from his mouth.
Instead of having a meltdown and slapping labels on him – jerk, asshole, fuck boy, emotionally unavailable, or a narcissist, remember this: even the gentlest, most obedient dog will snap and bite if you relentlessly push it into a corner and keep poking it with a stick.
If you have a history in your relationship of leaning forward and mothering him, guess what? You're disrespecting his boundaries. You’re not treating him with trust and respect.
It's like constantly yanking a dog’s tail. Can you really blame the dog for finally losing its cool and sinking its teeth in? Nah, I didn't think so.
Men work the same way. If you are emasculating the male twin for too long, he'll snap, guaranteed.
How to change your twin flame’s mind and get him to chase you like crazy
If you have read this far, you may be feeling anxious and questioning, "Does he truly have such negative feelings towards me? It sounds horrible. Is he my twin flame? How can I possibly resolve this? It seems hopeless."
Don't worry about how awful his emotions and thoughts sound like. They're just a snapshot of his PRESENT feelings for you in the here and now. They don't say shit or can predict his future emotions, thoughts, and attraction toward you.
During the separation, he doesn’t want you to contact him because he thinks you shouldn’t be together. He seriously doubts that you’re his true twin right now because a true twin doesn’t behave like this.
And he’s right. For now. But no matter how fucked up your relationship is you have the power to make your twin flame see you as his dream woman and become totally obsessed with you.
Men have a tendency to forget quickly, move on, and are open to second chances. Ironically men are less slow-witted than women usually are. Think of them like dogs: Offer them a treat, and they'll forget everything and follow you.
To sum it up: The male twin flame (the runner) runs for a reason. It’s not beyond your comprehension. It’s not because the universe is “testing” you. It’s not because he is scared of the intensity of the connection.
Your twin runs because he is scared of committing to a needy, clingy, anxious woman who wants his balls in a cage. So if you want to change his mind, you need to change his perception about you.
The fastest way to change his perception of you is by changing your energy.
You can’t pretend to be confident. You need to BE confident. Because as long as you don’t put in the inner work and heal your neuroses, a reunion can’t happen.
5 ways to shift your vibe (and have a happier week):
➡️ Apply the No Contact rule. Work on yourself and heal your neuroses.
➡️ Replace aimless scrolling with memories that never make it on social media.
➡️ Focus more on being an embodiment of a goddess than trying to get your twin to commit to you.
➡️ Don’t take criticism and shitty advice from people you wouldn't take advice from.
➡️ Be less reactive and more intentional. Slow down and focus on what really matters. Your family, passions, purpose, mission, etc.
➡️ Daily dance parties can be a motherfucking game changer.
➡️ Stop trying to do what makes other people happy and start doing what actually makes YOU happy.
➡️ Place your left hand on top of your physical heart and repeat these power words until there's no resistance left in your body. "Just BEING myself IS FUCKING ENOUGH to CAUSE (insert his first and last name) to initiate contact with me today".
In my experience, AFFIRMATIONS OR SPELLS are the perfect way to quickly reveal and subsequently shift your limiting beliefs.
Power means you decide how your twin shows up for you. You say it is so, therefore it is so. You speak your 3D reality into existence.
Your twin can FEEL you shift during your separation. There is no need to post something cryptically on Facebook or text him that you’re working on yourself. The telepathy is real.
It’s the simple things that add up and make a huge fucking difference in your twin flame relationship.
Oftentimes we women think happiness and success come from one big thing - the reunion, the ring, the babies, the big house with the white fence. When in fact, it comes from the accumulation of the small things.
Want to transform your life? Your twin flame relationship? Master the fucking basics.
Viona Kali Haven
Viona Haven is a NO BS psychic coach and the authority on twin flame relationships and 5D ascension. She is the CEO and founder of her company Manifestation Diva and has helped 500+ women to reach a twin flame reunion.
Viona Haven and her company are leading the charge in teaching twin flame relationships and building female boss leaders who are devoted to global healing and changing the fucking world. The return is a twin flame love, massive mega impact, and 6-figure brands that give back.
Viona Haven has completed her twin flame journey and lives in full union with her twin flame. Her favorite drink is hot chocolate with whipped cream because "all the cool adults drink it".
When not coaching her students into goddam goddesses, Viona can be found barefoot in nature, sunbathing by the pool, eating salted caramel ice cream, or watching Netflix documentaries about serial killers. She is a digital nomad traveling the world in a 4x4 camper van with her partner and dog. She’s never been happier.
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