In this teaching on Twin Flame Relationships, you will learn:
✨What the Law of Polarity is and how it will help you manifest a reunion fast AF
✨Why we despertaly want Dr. Hannibal Lector and Will Graham to fuck their brains out
✨How empaths subconsciously kill the attraction by depolarizing their twin flame relationships 
✨How to end the separation stage and remove all twin flame relationship roadblocks
✨Mastering the balancing masculine and feminine energies to reach a twin flame reunion

Understanding the importance of polarity in romantic relationships is the motherfucking reason I am still in full union with my twin. Turns out, the more feminine energy you bring to the table, the more your twin will be masculine. 

Truthbomb: a twin flame reunion is not an fucking end station.

If you don't respect the Law of Polarity, your twin will continue with his shitty behavior, ghost you, ignore you and run away from you - even if you're tied in holy matrimony!

Imagine this: you have completed your journey and live in full union with your twin.

At the beginning of your journey, being away from your twin was fucking unbearable. You couldn't get enough of his dick, his body, his energy... He consumed your thoughts and you made sure to be physically close to him whenever possible.

Why? Because there was an explosive spark and an overwhelming sense of passion that bound you two together. This powerful force is a result of the Law of Polarity in relationships.

However, over time, after you reached full union, got married, bought your house, and started a family, you've noticed that the intense passion has diminished. You still love your twin, but the intense, magnetic attraction that once held you together is lacking.

And you don't get it. You thought that this was the love for a lifetime but now you're finding yourself in the same ball-crushing situation as with your ex-boyfriends, ex-lovers, or ex-husband. 

The reason the spark is gone is because it's an unbalanced polarity in your relationship. 

You may have heard of Newton's law that says, "For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction." This law also applies to psychology in your twin flame relationship.

As a spiritual woman, you most likely know all about the law of attraction, but this is not enough to keep your twin flame in the long run. The law of polarity on the other hand is the golden fucking nugget in your twin flame relationship. 

The Law of Polarity is a principle that states that everything in our Universe is dual, and everything is the perfect expression of its opposite. The Universe is always in balance. Everything holds an opposing truth, all of which are true.

Keep in mind that gender does not affect whether you have masculine or feminine energy. Each person has masculine and feminine energy in them but they’ll have a dominant polarity and therefore would exhibit more of either energy than the other.

The Law of Polarity In Relationships

Polarity means the attraction of different energies. It's the way of nature, and you see it in every aspect of life. 

It's the principle that two opposing forces are always at play in everything: good and evil, love and hate, night and day, winter and summer, soft and hard, or feminine and masculine.

Polarity is the presence of opposite energies in a romantic relationship, and that’s what keeps the sexual tension and spark alive. That’s what keeps two people attracted to each other and prevents them from starting to feel like they’re roommates or friends.

The Law of Polarity works around the famous principle of “opposites attract". Simply put; if you’re showing up in masculine energy, you will attract men who are offering the opposite energy.

When you embody the masculine (yang) energy in a relationship and have no desire to change or are content with your role, you will naturally attract men who radiate feminine (yin) energy.

Masculine men will find you unattractive and see you as a friend rather than a hot goddess or wife material.

You might also struggle to develop a strong sexual attraction towards masculine men as the polarity required to ignite romantic sparks may be absent. You find yourself feeling attracted only to men who are projects, who suffer from Peter Pan syndrome, or need help or fixing in some way.

Here's the kicker; when you are embodying MASCULINE energy, your twin has no choice but to take on the FEMININE role which kills his attraction for you. 

While your masculine energy is a huge fucking asset in many areas of your life when it comes to twin-flame love, it is your worst enemy and your Achilles heel.

If you have this pattern of embodying masculine bossy energy in your twin flame journey, you will attract lazy, passive feminine behavior inside your man/twin.

He will be more laid back, more clueless, more scared to commit, and he is not going to court you. He will not make the effort and he will assume that you will take all the heavy lifting in the relationship.

If you’re an intelligent, high-achieving woman who gets “friend-zoned” by your twin or if your twin is running away from you, ghosting you, and ignoring you, then your feminine power is the area where your biggest learning lies.

Why We Want Dr. Hannibal Lector & Will Graham to Fuck

Imagine playing with magnets. They are drawn to each other because of their opposing forces. When a positive magnet and a negative magnet come close, they stick together and it creates a flame. But if you have two positive magnets or two negative magnets, they push each other away.

Similarly, in a relationship, love represents one magnet and passion the other. When these forces collide, a strong bond is created. But if the passion fades, it's like the magnets losing their magnetic pull.

Movie directors also understand how polarity creates this intense spark. Just look at the American psychological horror-thriller television series Hannibal and how the directors play with polarity to keep us on our toes.

The show focuses on the relationship between the FBI special investigator Will Graham (Hugh Dancy) and Dr. Hannibal Lecter (Mads Mikkelsen).

At one extreme of the spectrum, we encounter the empathic, ultra-sensitive, animal-loving hero, Will Graham, who dedicates himself to rescuing dogs and caring for others.

On the flip side, we have the bone-chilling Dr. Hannibal Lecter, a forensic psychiatrist with a hair-raising mix of serial killer instincts and psychopathy, who hosts fancy dinners where guests unknowingly feast on human flesh. Hannibal's unique taste for "the rude" adds an extra dash of terror to his repertoire.

Will and Hannibal are perfect (but toxic) polar opposites.

Throughout the show, Will and Hannibal find themselves entangled as sworn enemies while paradoxically being the only individuals capable of truly understanding each other. No matter what way you look at them, there is an undeniable spark and connection that runs deep between Hannibal Lecter and Will Graham. 

Even though the show wrapped up back in 2015, the burning questions that still dominate Google searches are all about that electrifying tension between Will and Hannibal. People just can't help but obsess over questions like, "Do Will and Hannibal ever kiss?" or "Do Hannibal and Will fall in love?".

It's no mere coincidence. When opposites collide, it's like the explosive collision that sets the scene on fire, leaving you breathless and craving for more.

That's why understanding the art of creating polarity in your relationship is an absolute game-changer. Get ready, because once you master the secrets, your twin flame won't be able to resist the allure. He'll be downright obsessed with you, chasing after you with a level of intensity that'll drive him fucking crazy. 

Polarized Romance

What is fucking important for you to understand here (and what felt challenging for me to “get” at first) is this: what sparks SEXUAL ATTRACTION is completely different from what builds other healthy, social relationships.

The difference between the relationship you have with your twin flame and the relationship you have with your father, your brother, your male coworker, and even your kids and friends, is SEXUAL ATTRACTION.

The attraction itself is based on sexual polarity, which is carried by the presence of masculine and feminine energies in a relationship. This is true even in same-sex relationships as well! 

The stronger OPPOSED the energies are between two people, the stronger the ATTRACTION is within the relationship. The reason my teaching has been so successful is because it follows this very principle religiously.

When a masculine person and a feminine person come together in a twin flame relationship, they create a special spark. But if you have two masculine people or two feminine people, things won't go forward.

To attract masculine men and to keep them attracted, you have to be their polar opposite. Your twin flame is by nature designed to be instinctively DRAWN toward you when you're vibrating femininity and confidence. 

Some female twins like to be in the masculine role. And if that's true for you, then I'm not the right coach for you.

I’m only working with women who want to feel cherished and fucking worshipped inside their twin flame relationships, women who want their men to make the effort, bring them flowers and gifts, spoil them, love them, cherish them, commit to them, and not just with cute words of affirmation, but with acts of service and effort.

So buckle up and get ready to unleash the power of polarity like never before!

What Is Depolarization And Why It Hurts Relationships

Depolarization is like a superhero losing their powers. It happens in romantic relationships when the balance between masculine and feminine energies starts to fade away.

How does this travesty occur? Well, often one or both partners decide to ditch their true energy aka dominant polarity, and try to be like the other person.

Picture this: Imagine a lion suddenly forgetting its roar and trying to meow like a timid kitten. It's just not the same, right? If Superman suddenly forgot he could fly and started wearing a cape just like Wonder Woman, it would be confusing as hell.

The same goes for relationships. When partners give up their unique powers and try to be the same, things move quickly to fucktopia.

I've seen a toxic pattern in my female clients who identify as empaths. Empaths are very sensitive to energies and fully in tune with their male twins - reading not only what they say but also what they don't say like their body language. As a result, they often find themselves gradually abandoning their own feminine energy.

Empathic women begin to mirror their male twins' actions, body language, and words. Before they know it, they've taken on the role of the masculine partner in the relationship, leaving their partner to embrace the feminine energy. Suddenly, they have killed the attraction and the male twin flame is running away again.

All relationship problems can be traced back to depolarization, even gay relationships. When a relationship depolarizes, you don’t feel the connection you used to, either because both of you have developed the same type of energy or because you are not embracing your true energy aka your dominant polarity.

To manifest a permanent union, and to keep your relationship supercharged, you must embrace your own kickass energy while appreciating and supporting the different energy of your twin. That's what makes a twin-flame relationship unique!

Signs You're Depolarizating Your Twin Flame Relationship

Many women tell me they are the DF (divine feminine partner) in their twin flame relationship. However, their actions, thoughts, body language, words, and habits show that they are the DM (divine masculine partner) instead.

When you:

• Bring your twin thoughtful gifts,
• Send him cute text messages,
• Give him tons of compliments,
• Cook and clean for him,
• Pick him up for dates,
• Pay for the dates,

...you feel like you’re a fucking catch, don’t you?

You feel GREAT because, in your mind, you believe that you’re showing him what a great girlfriend and potential wife you are.

You assume that being nice and spoiling to your twin will make him feel more attracted to you and maybe even appreciate having you in his life.

You see, I used to think that being "nice" and patient with men was the right thing to do. But, as I continued learning more about how to manifest more love from my twin by doing less, I came to understand that it was a big fat lie. 

When you act like this, you're actually acting in masculine energy, and this creates a role reversal situation that causes a toxic imbalance in the relationship. 

Energetically, you start to CHASE him and come across as desperate (a major attraction killer for men).

Once you know how to turn your femme magic on and you get the hang of it, it's really just like flipping a switch. It creates a deep fucking attraction in your twin, and it's like all the parts of his body just get activated.

It gives him this intense need to be with you, and to touch you, which makes him call you, text you, and ask you out consistently. So embodying feminine energy with your twin is the key to manifesting a permanent twin flame reunion. 

Choose Your Dominant Polar Energy

You need to figure out what your true energy is and what dominant polarity you want to carry in your twin flame relationship - and stick to it!

Grab a journal and ask yourself this million-dollar question: what energy am I showing up inside the twin flame relationship RIGHT NOW? 

And what energy do you WANT to carry in your twin flame relationship?

How do you see yourself in your ideal relationship?

Are you in action, handling things?

Do you want to always be in control, keep the books, make the decisions, and be respected for all that you do?

Do you want to be the giver, planner, and lover, nurture him, and cherish your man's feelings ahead of your own?

Then you'll want to choose masculine energy.

Or are you carving more romance?

Do you want to relax when you come home from work, allowing your man to treasure your feelings?

Do you want to feel more peace, pleasure, and joy in your relationship, and be more in your sensual body instead of only existing in your head?

Do you desire to take time for yourself, allowing your man to be in action, handle things, and take care of you?

Then you'll want to be the feminine energy.

Neither energy is superior nor inferior. Being masculine is not bad. Feminine is not good. They both have their strengths and weaknesses.

How To Get Your Twin Back Through Polarization

Where women are making a huge mistake today is in choosing to be the queen, and then taking the masculine, action-oriented, take-charge style...and killing the attraction and pushing their men away again.

I've seen it time and time again; women who are running themselves crazy doing the heavy lifting in their twin-flame relationships end up coming back to me, feeling resentful and complaining about their passive partners.

They signed up for a relationship where they're supposed to bring masculine energy, while their twin embodies the feminine side. Later, they get pissed when their men don't step up and take charge. It just doesn't work that way.

Here's an uncomfortable truth bomb: You can't have it both ways!

You can't be the one calling the shots and expect your twin to do the same. When it comes to twin flame relationships, someone has to wear the metaphorical skirt, and if it's not you, then it'll be him.

So, if you want your twin to take charge, plan hot dates, pays for things, and lead the way, then you need to tap into your feminine energy. That's how you'll activate that kind of strong, sexy, confident masculine leadership behavior in your twin.

I understand that this truth might trigger the hell out of you. I've worked with many smart and successful women who get pissed and initially resist this idea. But radically accepting this truth will revolutionize your twin flame journey in ways you can't even imagine.

The fastest way to turn your twin flame relationship around is to intentionally decide to leave masculine at work: Own it, enjoy it, and use it in an empowered way at the office. You can still go out and be the badass boss diva you are in your career, and plan, organize, and get shit done. 

But when you're together with your twin, when you show up on your dates, when you show up in your marriage, when you show up in your relationship, you switch into your feminine. 

You must own the shit out of your feminine energy because that's when he will feel inspired to step up his masculine energy around you. 

ABOUT MOI
Viona Kali Haven

Viona Haven is a NO BS psychic coach and the authority on twin flame relationships and 5D ascension. She is the CEO and founder of her company Manifestation Diva and has helped 500+ women to reach a twin flame reunion.

Viona Haven and her company are leading the charge in teaching twin flame relationships and building female boss leaders who are devoted to global healing and changing the fucking world. The return is a twin flame love, massive mega impact, and 6-figure brands that give back. 

Viona Haven has completed her twin flame journey and lives in full union with her twin flame. Her favorite drink is hot chocolate with whipped cream because "all the cool adults drink it".

When not coaching her students into goddam goddesses, Viona can be found barefoot in nature, sunbathing by the pool, eating salted caramel ice cream, or watching Netflix documentaries about serial killers. She is a digital nomad traveling the world in a 4x4 camper van with her partner and dog. She’s never been happier.