This Sneaky Mistake Pushes Your Twin Flame Away

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In this teaching on Twin Flame Relationships, you will learn:
✨Why rereading old texts will push your twin flame away
✨How being stuck in the past blocks you from the reunion
✨How to strengthen your connection with him during a separation
✨How to become more attractive and speed up the time to reunion
✨Practical tips for deleting the texts and manifesting your twin back

If rereading old texts from your twin flame sends a pang of pain in your heart, but you still can't bring yourself to delete the fucking texts... I know how you feel.

  • You feel crazy waiting for him to come back
  • You're starving for attention and affection
  • You may think that by deleting the text thread, you are deleting the contact
  • You find comfort in obsessively rereading the text thread over and over...

 It's painful, but it feels good to open the memory box again and suck out the fucking light and love from the few loving texts he sent.

If you checked off any or all of the above boxes, and are finding yourself currently cringing right now,… I’ve done it all, seen it all, and YES, I’m here to help.

I was the motherfucking queen of rereading old texts.

It felt hard to delete the only visual "proof" I had of the existence of the relationship. Deleting them felt like I was admitting defeat.

I foolishly thought that letting go was the same thing as "giving up" (this is so far from the truth. When you let go you actually speed up the manifestation process as I explain in my free eBook Get Your Twin Flame Back). Download it below:

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Rereading the old text threads was my safety blanket, and I refused to erase every trace of his existence. 

I wanted to find hidden clues inside the sentences as to why he dumped and hurt me. If I found the hidden red flags and mistakes I had made, I could ensure he would never leave me in the future. At least that was what I thought. 

I was a motherfucking self-abuser.

I liked to torture myself whenever I got the chance...

👉I listened to sad songs that reminded me of him and watched his favorite shows.

👉I bought the perfume he used and spray it on my pillow to manipulate the feeling that he was sleeping next to me.

👉I fantasized, daydreamed, and replayed our memories over and over again in my fucking head until I couldn't take the pain anymore. 

👉 I missed him so much that I drown myself in thoughts of him.

knew it would be a big fucking mistake to text or call him (I was already following The No-Contact Rule here), so reading through his old messages was the next best thing to feel close to him!

I could fool myself to feel like he was still in my life and acting like everything was okay. He was still in my life, nothing had changed between us, and we were still together. I wanted to remember the good feeling that he used to give me before everything fell apart. 

Most of all, I kept rereading old texts because they reminded me that I was not crazy.

There really was something between us once upon a time. All my friends told me that I was fucking crazy for still wanting him back (“he was such a jerk to you! Just forget him!”) but the texts proved that it wasn't all in my head.

He had feelings for me! It wasn't always one-sided! I was not crazy!

Now when I operate from the peak of emotional intelligence (which is the main trait of 5D people) I can see that I was shooting memory heroin directly into my fucking veins. It was just as toxic, just as destructive.

A spiritual awakening is not for the faint-hearted 🤣…


6 reasons why you must delete old texts if you want your twin flame back and keep him in love!

🚩Reason #1 - You are unattractive 

Rereading old texts creates a desperate, needy, clingy, and very unattractive vibration. Men hate desperation. There is no high-quality masculine man on the planet that feels attracted to that kind of vibe. It's too heavy, it feels suffocating and like he can't breathe. 

Because we are all connected, he will pick up your anxious vibe telepathically, reducing his desire to see you again.

To make your twin flame realize you are his One and Only - to get him to step up and give you the love and attention you deserve - you need to know how to fill your own energy tank so you will not be attached to him or be addicted to his energy (or some fucking texts) to feel happy.


🚩Reason #2 - You fuck up your manifestation

To manifest a twin flame reunion you must take actions like you already have it.

If you really were in a happy, committed relationship with your twin flame, you would not waste your precious time by reading old texts from him. You would feel happy, present, joyful, safe, and desirable.

Rereading old texts means that you are acting from a place of lack: fear of letting go, fear of losing him, fear of leaning back, fear of not being good enough.

This fear will manifest more lack on your twin flame journey aka longer separation, no contact, delays, confusion, and fights. To attract what you want from him (more texts, calls, hot dates, commitment, loyalty) you need to change your mindset from 3D LACK to 5D ABUNDANCE.

🚩Reason #3 - You are acting from a 3D 

The major goal of the twin flame journey is to uplevel to 5D consciousness. If you’re a woman (or want to be the female partner in the relationship) this means embodying the divine feminine energy. Feminine energy is heart-based and in the present moment which is what leaning back helps you with.

Rereading old texts means mean that you are attached to the past. You are not really here. You are still plugged into the 3D Matrix and are addicted to 3D proof. You can’t attract and keep your twin flame in love from this toxic place. You must be in receiving energy (feminine energy) to receive what you fucking want to attract!

🚩Reason #4 - You are recreating a trauma

I call the phase before we attract what we want, “The Void”. This is when things are uncertain, and most women can’t fucking stand it. The separation phase is like planting a seed and waiting for a flower to bloom. It will fucking grow if you let go of it!

But unhealed twin flames can’t stand the natural phase of uncertainty that happens during the twin flame journey. They feel like they MUST know how it’s gonna go in order to feel better. 

They are sabotaging the love flower’s growth by leaning forward and being obsessive control freaks like overthinking, fantasizing, daydreaming, and rereading old texts. This behavior is a trauma response: you felt like you had no control as a child and repeat that pattern with men. Your unhealed trauma will lead to manifesting the outcome you fear the most - your twin ghosting and dumping you

🚩Reason #5 You are constipated

Manifestation divas don’t give a fuck about the law of attraction. We focus on The Law of Vacuum and The Law of Polarity because these laws will help you speed up the manifestation process.

Simply put - the more space you’ll create, the faster you will have what you want. The more you let go, the faster you will manifest. The more you declutter, the more easily things will be manifested in your life.

Rereading old texts means that you are right now constipated with old energy blocks. So, deleting that long thread of messages clogging up your phone is a very powerful way to speed up the time to the reunion!


🚩Reason #6 - You are giving away your power

I know this is really fucking hard for you to get right now, but in love, you are the one with the power. Not him.

When you are clinging to the crumbs he threw you in the past, the way a drowning person clings to a lifebuoy, you will fucking lose! You are showing him you've completely lost your power, forgotten that you are a goddess, and that you deserve the whole buffet and not just crumbs!

You can't think your way out of this. If you continue trying to escape the pain of separation, you will never attract and keep your twin flame if you continue to be attached and obsessed. The detached twin flame diva is so much hotter!

How to get your twin flame back by successfully deleting the text thread (even if you are scared as fuck!)

🔥Step #1: Save It Somewhere Out Of Reach

If you just can't bear to delete the text thread, start in baby steps: for example, screenshot the text messages and save them somewhere you can't access for a long time, like a friend's Dropbox. You can also download them in email form and then forward that email to a close friend, and asked her/him never to delete it.

When you break your addiction to rereading text messages, you show yourself that you can do it. When you stop yourself from continually looking at them, it will not seem as bad because you know the texts aren't gone forever. This builds your trust in yourself.  

In time, it will be much easier to delete them completely so you can lean the fuck back and step into the frequency of detachment.

🔥Step #2: Decide To Be Brave

Your fear comes from the uncertainty of the outcome. But, if he is your true Twin Flame, he WILL come back. I can give you a 100% guarantee of that.

Our track record of 500+ twin flame reunions and 30 engagements isn't a record to sneeze at. It's REAL and backed up with testimonials from my very loyal fan base. Trust me, he will come back.

But he simply can't come if you are attached, needy and obsessed.

Just like throwing out candy on a diet, you need to throw him out of your fucking phone… for now. 

Take a deep breath and just do it.

Get rid of the good morning messages that used to light up your room before the sun crept in. Get rid of the cute messages, the sweet messages, the silly messages, and the sexy messages. 

Remind yourself that there will be plenty more in the future.


🔥Step #3: Get Busy With Things You Love

Write down 100 things that you LOVE. They can be anything. Nothing is too silly or unimportant to write down! Really think about what YOU love and WHY you love it. Write down activities related to your favorite artists, movies, songs, colors, clothes, foods, and desserts...

Now, look over your list of what you LOVE. Choose one thing on the list that you could say YES to—and commit to doing that thing for yourself. If it’s something that could be enjoyable on a regular basis, commit to doing it every day for a whole week.

Every time you feel an energetic dip and start overthinking, just say “STOP” in your head, pick something from your 100 Things list, and DO it right away.

If you love painting, your favorite color is red, your favorite drink is a mojito, and your favorite band is QUEEN, put on a red dress, paint your toenails in red, drink a mojito, and create art while listening to your favorite song by QUEEN.

Do not take this tool lightly. It’s your responsibility to keep your anxiety under control and fill your emotional tank yourself!

Trick your mind by filling the void in your life with thoughts and activities that help you feel GOOD. 

If you become bored, your obsessive thoughts and need to check old texts or stalk him on social media will kick in and make you feel worse. 

This step will help you naturally feel happy and confident -- which is the feminine shift needed for your twin flame to come to you!

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Do you want to learn more of my powerful secrets to help you heal your twin flame's commitment phobia so you can finally manifest the blissful reunion you want? 

There are a few options you can do (pick two or all of them):

1. Download my free ebook Get Your Twin Flame Back, where I share my well-proven 3 step method on how to break the separation stage and manifest a twin flame reunion in 30 days or less by embodying feminine energy. Over 5000 downloads!

2. Sign up for my newsletter, and get the latest twin flames, dating, relationship, and ascension advice to empower yourself and bring your twin closer. Unsubscribe at any time.


3. Want to learn more about the psychology of the male twin flame and how to inspire him to commit to you THE MOST DEFINITE WAY? Then, get my powerful self-study program, Make Your Twin Flame Obsessed with You, for only $7 (for a limited time)

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4. Click here to read about our twin flame reunion success stories. Grab a cup of tea and binge-read what other women just like YOU have achieved with help from my tools. You're in good hands when you come to us; our track record of 500+ reunions isn't a record to sneeze at!

Just READING our testimonials will activate a "Wow, everything is truly possible! If she can do it, so can I 🤩"  attitude within you, which is crucial for high vibration so you can manifest a twin flame reunion. Some women have displayed phone texts, calls, and dates with their twins from just VISITING our high-vibrating page!


5. Have questions? Comment below or send me an email to support@vionahaven.com and my team of certified twin flame teachers will help you create a personalized step-by-step plan to manifest a twin flame reunion in this lifetime as fast as fucking possible. 

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Viona Kali Haven

Viona Haven is a NO BS psychic coach and the authority on twin flame relationships and 5D ascension. She is the CEO and founder of her company Manifestation Diva and has helped 500+ women to reach a twin flame reunion.

Viona Haven and her company are leading the charge in teaching twin flame relationships and building female boss leaders who are devoted to global healing and changing the fucking world. The return is a twin flame love, massive mega impact, and 6-figure brands that give back. 

Viona Haven has completed her twin flame journey and lives in full union with her twin flame. Her favorite drink is hot chocolate with whipped cream because "all the cool adults drink it".

When not coaching her students into goddam goddesses, Viona can be found barefoot in nature, sunbathing by the pool, eating salted caramel ice cream, or watching Netflix documentaries about serial killers. She is a digital nomad traveling the world in a 4x4 camper van with her partner and dog. She’s never been happier.


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